You’ve found the ONE. The woman with whom you envision your future. And now you’re planning to ask the question of questions – THE PROPOSAL. But not just any question, but a perfectly thought-out secret marriage proposal that will blow her away.
Don’t worry, I’ll help you with that! Here you’ll find the best tips on how to make your perfect secret proposal unforgettable – including a way to capture it professionally! 😉
1. Find the perfect place for your secret marriage proposal
Think about a place that has a special meaning for both of you. Maybe it’s the place of your first date, your favorite park or a city you love together. Or surprise her with a completely new, magical place – on the beach, in the mountains or at a hidden spot with an incredible view.
Tip: If you’re proposing outside, check the weather beforehand! Rain can be romantic – but not if you’re completely soaked. 😅
After many years, I also collected my own photo spots that might also be good for a secret proposal. Here’s my practical Google map.
2. Plan a story – not just the proposal
The perfect proposal consists not only of the question “Will you marry me?” – but the whole moment around it. Think about how you can get her to the place without her suspecting anything. Perhaps a romantic walk, a weekend getaway or a photo shoot together (more on this later 😉).
If she doesn’t immediately guess what’s happening, the surprise will be all the better!
3. Public or private?
This is a super important question: Is your partner the type who prefers an intimate moment? Or does she love to be the center of attention?
A proposal in a restaurant with everyone looking at you can be wonderful – or a nightmare if she’s shy. If you’re unsure, opt for a personal, quiet moment.
4. Capture the moment – hire a photographer! 📸
Imagine you can capture this unique moment forever – and she can experience it again later. How? Simple: by hiring a photographer to secretly document the secret marriage proposal from a distance!
You can also stage the proposal as part of a ‘couple shoot’ so that she doesn’t notice. While you’re posing in a beautiful setting, you suddenly get down on one knee – perfect surprise!
👉 If you don’t have a photographer yet – I’m here for moments like this! Feel free to write to me and we’ll plan your unique proposal together 😉
5. Think about the right words
Does it have to be a big speech? No. But think about a few sentences beforehand that come from the heart.
Maybe remind her of the moment when you knew she was the one. Or tell her why you can’t imagine life without her. Just be yourself – that’s the best thing 💙
6. Bonus tip: Celebrate the engagement! 🎉
After the big “Yes!”, things really get going. Whether it’s a small dinner for two, a surprise party with your closest friends or a mini engagement trip – make this day something special. And if you like, we can add a little engagement photoshoot to capture the happy feelings forever!
Ready for the perfect secret marriage proposal?
If you’re now full of ideas and want to make the proposal unforgettable, then get in touch with me! I’ll not only help you with the planning, but also capture the magical moment for you.
📩 Just send me a message – we’ll make your secret marriage proposal unforgettable!
